Indlela yokusingatha ukuphawula okubi

Ukuphawula okubi kungalimaza, kodwa ngisho naBabungazi abasezingeni eliphakeme bayakuthola ngezikhathi ezithile. Nawa amacebiso ambalwa okusingatha umbiko wezivakashi ongemuhle.

Ukusabela ekuphawuleni kusiza ekuboniseni izivakashi ukuthi uyakujabulela ukusikisela. “Angilindele kunoma yimuphi uMbungazi ukuba abe nokuphawula okungenaso nhlobo isici,” kusho u-Andrew, isivakashi esiphinde sibe uMbungazi Ovelele e-Berlin. “Ngikhangwa kakhulu yilabo abangawubukeli phansi umbiko ogxekayo.”

Cabangela la macebiso lapho uphendula ekuphawuleni okungekuhle:

• Shiya impendulo yomphakathi. Impendulo emfushane, enobungane ingasiza ekuqinisekiseni ezinye izivakashi ukuthi uyakukhathalela okokuzithokozisa kwazo.
• Bonga izivakashi ngombiko wazo. Lokhu kungaba lula njengokuthi: “Ngiyabonga ngokuphawula kwakho! Siyakwazisa ngempela ukuthi uthatha isikhathi sokucabanga ngohambo lwakho.”
• Yabelana ngendlela oyithuthukisa ngayo indawo yakho. Ungase ubhale: “Siyaxolisa ngokuthi imibhede ibingekho ntofontofo. Ukulala kwakho kubalulekile, ngakho-ke sifake ama-mattress toppers.”

Ungakwazi njalo ukubika ukuphawula okuphambene Nenqubomgomo yethu Yokuphawula, njengokuphawula kokuziphindiselela. Kungase kukhishwe uma kutholakala ukuthi izivakashi zephule inqubomgomo ngendlela ebucayi.

Izinkinga zokunemba nokuhlanzeka yizizathu ezimbili ezivame kakhulu ezenza izivakashi zinikeze aBabungazi izinkanyezi ezingaphansi kwezinhlanu. Sebenzisa umbiko wezivakashi njengethuba lokuthuthukisa ukubungaza kwakho.

Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokubonisa izivakashi ukuthi uhlale ukulungele ukuthuthukisa:

• Phatha umbiko njengethuba. Izivakashi zinikeza imibono okungenzeka ubungakaze uyicabange, njengokuthi ungenza ukungena kube lula noma ufake amathawula engeziwe.

• Ungafihli lutho. Gcina izithombe zakho nencazelo yendlu kungokwakamuva ukuze ubonise lokho okunikezayo njengamanje. Chaza ukuthi uzisingatha kanjani izinkinga ezingase zibe khona, njengokuhlinzeka ngama-plug endlebe uma umgwaqo wakho unomsindo.

• Zijwayeze ukubungaza okungabandlululi. Gxila ekwenzeni zonke izivakashi zizizwe zamukelekile ngokusebenzisa ulimi olungathathi hlangothi ngokobulili nokugqamisa izici zabanokukhubazeka.
• Xhumana nezivakashi phakathi nokuhlala kwazo. Sebenzisa imiyalezo eshejuliwe ukubuza ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani, futhi ngokushesha uxazulule noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka.

Imininingwane ekulesi sihloko kungenzeka isishintshile selokhu sashicilelwa.